30 November 2019

Thanksgiving 2019

Well, this is a bit belated - such is the way of things at times.  Each year I try and draft a list of things that I've been thankful for the past year.  The list is in no particular order, and it is not all-inclusive. 

Sometimes writing a list of this nature has the risk of coming off like a big humblebrag - a representation of things or experiences I've had that are the result of a high degree of privilege.  I'll try to avoid that as much as I can, but also know that I write this in acknowledgment of that privilege, and I suppose thanks for that as well.


  • I'm writing this in the basement that I've spent the last 14 hours in, resulting from an unfortunate bout with what I hope is a 24 hour stomach bug.  I'm thankful that I had nothing important to do today, and could take the time to rest.
  • Mugs of hot coffee - if outside, in my titanium adventure mug, if inside, the chintzy Wall Drug ceramic mug I picked up on a winter drive through South Dakota.
  • Notwithstanding the immediate illness, for good health - for the bones, muscles, senses that allow me to go out in the world and experience it in new ways.
  • For my family - here in MN, out in SD and CO, wherever they are.  I'm thankful for new and old traditions, flexibility, a constant willingness to accept me as I am.
  • Wool socks.
  • Blue clothing.
  • Delicious whiskey drinks.
  • Learning new things.
  • As a corollary to that, an eight day period last December where between jobs, I could take the time for myself to drive out to the Tetons, ski bum a bit around Grand Targhee, learn how to backcountry ski, pad around doing whatever, and just generally do what needed to be done.
  • As a corollary to that, being married to someone who not only is cool with me just lighting out for a week, but encourages and celebrates that.  I'm thankful too that Kate could have a similar experience recently in Sedona.
  • For a week of fabulous skiing at Big Sky - for plentiful powder, semi-nude beacon checks, breakfast buffets, apres-ski beers, and the requisite clench-worthy moments.
  • Having the perseverance to finally re-finish our deck after many years of neglect.
  • Finding the new bike route to my office that cut the ride-time to under an hour, and much more pleasant to boot.
  • When you get a surprise message from a friend wanting to hang out.
  • Making the last minute decision to stay for the Sunday show at Alpine Valley and having an all-time Phish experience - 7/14/19 Ruby Waves!!
  • An epic time in Colorado with the adventure team - where we were challenged by conditions, challenged by altitude, challenged by hail at the Dead & Co show, but walked out with another transcendent experience in the backcountry of the Weminuche Wilderness.
  • For our dumb greyhound, Obi-Wan Kenobi - he may not look (or act) like much, but he's got it where it counts.
  • Long miles on country roads in the car, open to the experience of whatever you may come across.
  • The offbeat musical communities I am a part of - from the CV choir, to the Minneapolis Trombone Choir, to the St. Anthony Civic Orchestra.
  • For challenging work and opportunities to grow.
  • That feeling you get when you finally send the project in the rock climbing gym.
  • An October of great concerts - Sleater-Kinney, Bob Dylan, and Trey Anastasio.
  • A really fun summer of Twins baseball.
  • The bar burger at Bulls Foot bar in S. Minneapolis.
  • The Mandalorian, streaming on Disney +.
  • Anytime I don't have cell service.
  • Cowboy hats and boots.
  • Ben & Jerry's Phish Food ice cream.
  • Tacos and/or burritos.
  • What appears to now be a fully functional home from a core utility perspective - i.e. plumbing, heating/cooling, etc.
  • A day, any day, of skiing at Welch Village with a stop at Madd Jaxx.
  • A solid day of hiking.
  • Esoteric winter sports - i.e luge, biathlon, ski ballet.