Thanksgiving 2018

Each year, I make a list of things I'm thankful for, in no particular order.  This year is no different.  

1. I'm writing this post on a Thanksgiving morning that I don't need to work, with a mug of coffee on one hand and a glass of whisky (thanks Uncle Pat) in the other, anticipating a day of family events where I'll be surrounded by people I love and who love me.  What a place of privilege.  I'm thankful for that.
2. Tacos.
3. Spouse Kate - she has rightfully identified that I may be legit emotionally stunted, and therefore don't express gratitude or appreciation in a verbal sense as often as I should, but I am so thankful she's around.  
4. This dog - even though he sleeps on my pillow and is generally just really poorly mannered.
5. I'm thankful for all my family - mom, dad, spouse, aunt, uncle, niece, siblings, siblings in-law, parentals in-law, other familial hangers on, those that aren't technically family by blood but are family nonetheless.  Y'all are weird sometimes, but that's part of why you're great.
6. Impromptu plans, whether it's making plans over 10 minutes in February for my BFF to fly up from Louisiana for a 36 hour road trip to see Dead & Company this summer, or a last minute hang out with good friends who I hadn't seen in too long last Friday evening.  It's always worth it to ask.  Thankful for that.
7. Solitude - I had the opportunity to spend Memorial Day weekend on a solo BWCA trip, where I had the chance to unplug, paddle, read books, drink whiskey, skinny dip in the lake, see a moose, run rapids, and generally recharge.  I'm also thankful that Kate is cool with and understands that sometimes, doing things alone is not a dis on the other person, it's just a great opportunity to reflect and recharge.
8. Reconnecting with old friends from high school and college whom I wouldn't have expected to reconnect with.
9. My dad faced a significant mental health scare this year, and while mental health is rarely fully "cured," he's doing a lot better.  I'm thankful for that, and also that through the struggle, I think our family got a lot closer.
10. An incredible, crazy weekend with Cousin Mike and Mo in Denver, attending our first PHISH shows.  If you're going to do it, you might as well go to all three PhishDicks shows, and it was just as bizarre and weird and totally awesome as you might imagine it would be when you arrive in a chartered Grateful Dead bus.  Thanks to Mike and Mo for their generous hospitality!
11. To recover from three days of Phish, we got to spend a day in one of our favorite places - Rocky Mountain National Park, which was fabulous as always.
12. I've had a really intense year career-wise, especially in the past few months.  I've worked my ass off, and can tell that I've become a better lawyer and have really found the experience gratifying.  Thankful for all of this and my great colleagues, and also thankful for whatever lies ahead.
13. Random texts from friends.
14. Wool socks.
15. Biking to work.
16. I had two extremely memorable ski runs this year.  In January, I skied the Dictator Chutes at Big Sky, which involved leaping from a cornice and going down this narrow gully with waist deep powder, which was super rad!  In March at Jackson Hole, I skied Corbet's Couloir and while I was a tad gripped at the top, it was so gratifying to make the drop and do the run!
17. Really love the use of double negatives - i.e., "I could not not be excited for pumpkin pie."
18. Going for a paddle in our canoe on a random weeknight.
19. I'm really grateful for the richness that life opens up when you adopt a spirit of adventure as your creed.  
20. Star Wars Episode VIII: The Last Jedi - don't let the haters fool you, it is a MASTERWORK.
21. Melted cheese on pretty much anything.
22. I was invited to join a community orchestra, and even though the director's a bit of a weirdo and it's what you would expect, it's been a lot of fun to play orchestral music again.  Also grateful that my college band tuxedo fit well enough for the fall concert.
23. With some degree of reticence, I attended my 10 year reunion at Luther College, and even though I mostly hung out with my Luther friends from the Twin Cities, it was still super great to see people and be in Decorah.
24. Speaking of Decorah and Luther, so , so thankful for my fellow Manboy friends, who are all kicking ass and doing awesome things in their respective places in life, and who still find the time to jump on google hangout for an e-drink on a regular basis.
25. Joe Mauer - what a great role model to grow up watching with the Twins.
26. This morning, I woke up and ran a 5K even though I haven't run anywhere since I ran my last 5K last Thanksgiving - grateful for the good health and moderate level of fitness to allow me to do that.
27. Middle Eastern food.
28. Funny stickers.
29. Beer.
30. Whiskey - preferably outside around a fire or something, but anywhere is cool.  If Uncle Pat is there, watch out!
31. I know it's fiscally not the best, but I really love eating out and I'm thankful for the great conversations that tend to happen when I do.  Also, food.
32. Thankful for all the great energy at Christus Victor about the building expansion and other items - what a great opportunity to leave a legacy.
33. Trying new things.
34. Trombone choir.
35. Where I live - thankful that I can walk or bike to the coffee shop or restaurant, bike to other things, take the bus, do whatever.  
36. Similar to the above, thankful for the crew at Angry Catfish Bikes + Coffee - it's so refreshing to have a third place where people actually know you and care to talk about what is up in your world.
37. The results of the 2018 midterm elections, particularly in Minnesota.
38. Not actually having a lot of legitimate problems.
39. Catalogs that you receive in the mail.
40. Road trips (but only if there are combos and/or haribo gummy bears).
41. Didn't do a ton of fly-fishing this year, but grateful for the days I did get out.
42. Mid-ski beverages and chicken wings at Madd Jaxx at Welch Village.
43. Bob Dylan.
44. The refinished floors in my house.
45. Erik Laing, who helped me cut and install baseboards in my basement, and also joined me on a most excellent ski trip to Jackson Hole.  
46. The satisfaction that comes with hard work.
47. Mentors.
48. I generally just have really great friends.  They all approach life uniquely and with grace, resilience, and strength.  I am so thankful that they're around and that they're forgiving and understanding when life interrupts and time passes between points of contact.
49. The Sun, because without it, we'd be dead.
50. Curiosity.
51. Opportunities to exist in the chill zone.
52. In September, I really needed to take a dump on the trail in Rocky Mountain National Park, but did not have my toiletry supplies.  Really grateful for my Eagle Scout skills that allowed me to adapt and to resolve the situation without severe incident! 
53. The news always seems bad, but if you look around in your immediate locality, it seems like there are just a lot of good folk around.  Grateful for that.
54. The Grateful Dead - probably not going to name my firstborn Jerry like my cousin, but it was so awesome to go see Dead and Company this summer and experience a bit of that scene.
55. Bratwurst - preferably the cheese stuffed varietals.
56. Hot sauce.
57. Watching the Olympics on TV.
58. We went and saw "Free Solo" a month or so ago, and I was so inspired by it.  Thankful that that particular story was told.
59. The way that the pursuit of totally unnecessary and pointless endeavors can teach you a lot about yourself, others around you, and the world at large.
60. Even numbers.
61. Maintaining an air of mystery - you keep people guessing.
62. French fries.

I'm sure I missed a few things, but sometimes, that's just the way it is.  Hope all of you have a very reflective and peaceful Thanksgiving.

Thanksgiving 2017

As far as I can tell, from at least 2011 onwards, I've tried to make a list of all the things I am thankful for on Thanksgiving.  It's in no particular order, and I don't look at lists from prior years before I write it.  It's been a good exercise for me to take a break, breathe in some self-reflection, and exhale some gratitude.  I think I have a lot of things to be thankful for this year.

Here's my non-exclusive list for 2017.

1. I'm thankful for my spouse, Kate.  It would not be inaccurate to say we, and more specifically her, have been through some shit this year, and I sit here today awed at her resilience, emotional intelligence, and toughness.  It's not in my nature to make grand emotional statements, but she puts up with that, my perpetual desire to just improvise rather than plan, and my general aversion to divulging information unless specifically asked in the form of a question, plus more.  She's the best.
2. I'm thankful for friendships this year, which I think should flow through this list in various experiences.  People ask me not infrequently, "Isn't it odd to not have siblings?"  My usual response is some variant on, "I have two brothers, they're just different than what you may expect"  That stands true today.  I am imperfect at responding to messages, at following up, at making time, but I am beyond grateful for Benjamin and Scott.
3. Tacos - I really like the carnitas ones, but really any will do.
4. I'm thankful for this orange sweatshirt that I bought at a midwest mountaineering employee sale for $20 and am currently wearing as I type, which is absolutely the best.
5. For an experience of a lifetime - DESERT TRIP 2017 into the canyons of Grand Staircase-Escalante National Monument and surrounding environs.  I am thankful for every mile driven in the Subaru, every bad joke, that certain "salad shops" in Colorado are subject to laws not applicable in other states, every step retracing Backcountry Ben's 9 year old self at Calf Creek and subsequent steps going into the unknown of Little Death Hollow, that Benjamin didn't break either his wrist and/or his taint falling down a chockstone, for every second spent in the solitude of the canyon, for every 4% beer consumed on a hike wayside, even for the blisters and aches that mark the miles.  But most of all, I am thankful to share the experience with the best of family.
6. That time I went fly fishing by myself in Preston and caught a really big trout.
7. For the Nottingham IX, whom I quite literally think about every time I look down.  
8. It's only 13 days until Star Wars: The Last Jedi.  I'm going to go see it with my best friends from high school that I've been going to see Star Wars with since at least 2005, and I'm thankful for that too.
9. For a great year skiing, in Minnesota, Colorado, and Montana.  
10. Even though it was without question the weirdest vacation of my life, crashing with my dad the family vacation of my dad's wife's mom's best friend's boyfriend in one Airbnb, I'm thankful for the generosity of strangers who willingly will drive you a PB&J sandwich at the chalet for lunch.
11. I'm thankful for a sense of adventure.
12. For the number 12, my favourite number.
13. For new musical experiences - perhaps due to the unconscious influence of my cousin Mike, I've gotten really into the Grateful Dead and Phish this year.
14. For seeing Bob Dylan perform in St. Paul last month.
15. Frozen pizza.  Remember, every pizza is a personal pizza if you believe in yourself.
16. For that time Kate, Sarah, and I went to see the first MNUFC match in MLS in a driving snowstorm, even though they got rolled 6-1.
17. Comfortable pants.
18. Snowshoes and snowshoeing on the Superior Hiking Trail on New Years' Day.
19. Beer.  My favorites this year have been anything from Castle Danger and then other stuff too.
20. Wool hats and socks.
21. That feeling you get when you do something hard.
22. The folks and mission of Christus Victor Lutheran Church.  It's not sexy or popular to be lutheran in this day and age, but I generally like the people, I think it's a productive environment to be in, it's all I've ever known, and again, it's all about the relationships.
23. I'm thankful for those friends who really would be justified in casting you aside for lack of contact, but graciously continue and continue to be there.  I think of a law school friend who I ran into at Lutsen and subsequently invited us to happy hour with their family, an elementary school friend whom I went skiing with and ended up spending 3 hours at the chalet bar just chatting, and high school friends who keep inviting us to concerts even though I always have some legitimate yet outwardly stupid reason why we can't go.  Thank you so much for your friendship and your perseverance in the pursuit of continued friendship.  
24. Some shit went down this year, and I'm thankful for those who were there when it counted.  I'm not going to name names, but I'll name only an individual code named "thekim." 
25. Our stupid dog Obi-Wan.  We had him boarded by a woman while we were in D.C., and whatever he did, he quite literally caused the woman to not respond to my texts after we picked him up, but he is such a pure soul and means so well.  He's also a great camper, movie watcher, and sleeper right on your pillow as you also struggle to get comfortable.
26. Whiskey - in fact, I think I'll go pour some right now.
27. Coffee - fancy coffee, gas station coffee, coffee at home, coffee at work, coffeecoffeecoffee.
28. Playing the trombone, playing the guitar, making music and listening to it.
29. That my spring training prediction for a middling season for the Minnesota Twins was inaccurate.
30. While I can't do as much as I once did, I'm thankful for the young adults and Ms. Vergara with the FHS Mock Trial program.
31. For a job that, even while it sometimes means long hours and difficult stuff, I enjoy getting up and doing.  I'm thankful for the intellectual challenge it provides, for the lifestyle it affords, for the co-workers who are easy to work with yet also demanding.
32. Mark Hamill.
33. That time a ski guide took me up into the backcountry area at Bridger Bowl and we had to hike for our turns and wear an avalanche beacon.  That was sweet.
34. For when people came to my 2017 Star Wars marathon and went all in on eating Chinese takeout, pizza, blue milk, and sitting in a cramped basement for 17 hours.
35. I'm really thankful for my biological family.  For my mom and dad, who probably get frustrated when I don't respond to texts for days but still love and forgive me, for my aunt, uncle, cousins and cousins' kids in Sioux Falls, for cousin Mike in Denver, for all of Ann's family, for my mother and father in law, for thekim, for Erik, and even though little kids terrify me, for Ingrid.
36. I'm still thankful for Barack Obama.  I'm going to hold onto that and remember his example of graciousness until this current garbage individual mercifully makes his exit.
37. I had someone unfriend me in the past few years, and even though that still hurts, I'm thankful that this person appears to have found some joy and positivity in their life.  
38. For tangible experiences.
39. For public lands, and all the great things you can do on them.  Particular experiences this year included the aforementioned trip to Grand Staircase-Escalante and Canyonlands National Park, a weekend trip to the Boundary Waters, an anniversary bikepacking trip in the Chemequegon National Forest that actually was miserable in the rain but still sort of fun in a really masochistic way, many state park and forest camping trips, and time at the National Mall in Washington D.C.  It's easy to advocate for things that you cherish and are grateful for.
40. We started a new environmental/sustainability group at CV, the Green Team, and even though we've had ups and downs, I'm thankful that it's going.
41. For good health, for the ability to use my body to experience things both physical and mental.
42. For the intellectual life, the curiosity to keep learning, the desire to never stagnate.  
43. The porketta sandwich and a Big Jim at Northbound Smokehouse in south Minneapolis.
44. When I was in boy scouts, I could never climb the wooden tower at scout camp.  This year, I bought climbing shoes, a harness, and joined a climbing gym.  It's still way hard, but I'm thankful for being challenged.
45. For bikes!  For commuting to work on a bike instead of sitting in traffic!
46. Notwithstanding the traffic, I do enjoy a good drive and am thankful for that.  I got a new car this year that is quite zippy and I'm thankful for that and for receiving blessings that allowed it to come into being, which included but was not limited to Volkswagen fessing up to their global conspiracy and buying back my planet-killing Jetta.
47. For not falling off my bike on the Fourth of July this year, which had been a near annual occurrence.  
48. A doctor, a lawyer, a physicist, and a trombone professor walk into a bar and Chicago, and [redacted].  Thankful for my dear manboys and the opportunity for us all to get together this past spring.
49. Cheese.
50. That all of you keep your comments to yourself when you come to our obscenely messy house and/or yard.
51. For realizing it's okay to be a bit eccentric.
52. Reading stuff in print.

I could keep going, but I think you all probably get the jist of it.  Thanks to all of you for reading, and I hope everyone shares in a day of gratitude. 

Thanksgiving 2016

Dear Internet,

Each year, on this blog that I have long since ceased actively writing on, I compile a more or less stream-of-consciousness list of all the things I am thankful for over the past year.  This is not intended to be conclusive.  In many ways, 2016 the past calendar year has been one of ups and downs, but I am thankful for the opportunity to share these items with you, and I am gratified that more than one of you has inquired specifically on whether this post will be coming.

In no particular order:

1. Sharp cheddar cheese;
2. Writing with pencils;
3. My family who are my friends, my friends who are truly my family, and vice versa, on and on into infinity;
4. Well made, black coffee - particularly when accompanied by the positive community vibe at my local coffee shops Angry Catfish and Sisters Sludge;
5. For the gentleman pardoning the turkey in the photo above.  President's Obama's message inspired me in 2007 as a student at Luther College, and I have proudly supported him since.  I haven't always agreed with his policies, but whatever your politics, he has served this country faithfully and with extreme dignity for the past 8 years, and has represented us with honor, class, and respect for all of its diverse citizens.  I will truly miss his leadership and example, and I hope he continues to inspire me and others to make positive, progressive change;
6. Tacos;
7. Crisp mornings where you need a stocking cap and cup of coffee, ideally after having spent the night in a tent, and the evening preceding it having been occupied with cheap whiskey and good friends;
8. Trombone - mom, if you read this, I still suggest a new bass trombone would be an excellent use of the Music and Worship Committee budget;
9. The opportunity this year to learn a new instrument, the chance to learn with a skilled teacher, and the invitation to come play guitar, even if I have no idea what I am doing;
10. For the music, lyricism, and wisdom of one of my true heroes, a certain Bob Dylan.  It was so incredible to, however briefly, retrace his steps in Duluth and Hibbing this year while pondering the never-ending vibrancy of a person who won't let himself plateau;
11. IX - Notters, you understand.  Ten years later, the memories, lessons, and friendships of our time at 67 Homefield continue to play an integral role in who I am;
12. In retrospect, being fired;
13. The grace and humanity that my former partner showed me when I did get fired, who supported me and allowed me to work steadily while I got back on my feet;
14. For the opportunity to chase a career dream at DLA Piper, for colleagues who help me when I make a mistake, and for work that challenges me immensely; 
15. Environmental consciousness - sign the petition to save the Boundary Waters right here;
16. Our beautiful new Northstar Northwind 17 canoe - now appropriately featuring a few well-placed scratches;
17. The chance to spend 5 days in the wilderness of the BWCAW this September, with nothing to rely on but what we packed in on our backs and in our heads - what an incredible, priceless, ethereal place to distill down to the essentials of life;
18. For the chance to ski the mountains last year with Kate and both my parents on two separate trips;
19. The altogether too brief life of my good friend, Basil the Greyhound.  He got sick, and we had to let him go, and sometimes that's the shitty way life is, but what joy he brought during his time in our lives.  MTFBWY;
20. The currently existing life of my new good friend, Obi-Wan Kenobi the Greyhound.  He has zero manners, has too much energy, and typically bothers me about 65% of the time, but he means so well, and isn't that the mark of someone you want to spend time with?;
21. Listening to music for the sake of listening to music;
22. Whiskey - all of it;
23. The community at Christus Victor Lutheran Church - what a great place, and it has been really nice to try and get more involved as of late.  I literally have the best idea ever for a new initiative!;
24. Cruising by traffic on my bike each day heading to and from work;
25. Prince;
26. Living in a city that values bicycling and sustainability, and has the culture and people around to make bicycling an easy, fun, and cool way to get around and recreate;
27. The Rossignol Soul 7 skis I picked up on clearance last season;
28. Terrible, bro-tastic ski films replete with vocabulary such as "shred," "gnar," and "gripped" - can't get enough;
29. Beer - most all of the good stuff, though I prefer that brewed in Minnesota;
30. For spur of the moment trips to Wisconsin forests to backpack and get back to basics;
31. Striped or otherwise ostentatious wool socks;
32. I can't say I'm too thankful for the team's performance, but I still do enjoy and am thankful for the opportunity to watch the Twins on a summers' night;
33. Let's be honest, I really don't have too many major life problems;
34. Pancakes;
35. Skiing at Welch Village - yes, I have become a Big Sky convert, and nothing beats the mountain west for actual challenges, but there's something about turns on your local hill where you learned and grew up that will never get old;
36. The Force Awakens - I think I cried no less than 5 times - (1) when the main title came on; (2) when the Millennium Falcon appeared on screen; (3) when Han Solo and Chewbacca re-enter the Falcon; (4) when Rey summons Anakin/Luke's lightsaber using the Force and turns to confront Kylo Ren in the forests of Starkiller Base, and; (5) when, at last, Luke Skywalker appears at the very end;
37. For the time I attended a screening of the film referred to in item (35) with my in-laws, whilst garbed in screen-accurate costuming - sorry guys, but the die was cast when a request was made for me to not wear it;
38. Rogue One - only 21 days away;
39. Reconnecting with old friends who, honestly, I had no contemplation of ever seeing again;
40. My brother-in-law, who is a fishing partner, a skiing partner, a fly-tying partner, and just generally an admirable person who I enjoy spending time with not only in the trenches of Familial Events, but more mundane events as well;
41. Having the means and resources to be able to buy a new car this summer - write up my liberal yupster confession, yes it is a Subaru;
42. For the fact that when my lovely spouse had a not-insignificant health scare, it turned out to be nothing SERIOUS.  Shit got real there for a bit;
43. New vision insurance and new prescription sunglasses - seriously, now I can see when I wear them;
44. Leather boots;
45. That delightful anticipation you feel heading out for a day of fly fishing;
46. Fly fishing with my friend Tom, who has taught me a lot about life and fishing during our hours in the car and on the river;
47. While we're on the subject, the simple joy of catching a fish on a fly that I tied myself;
48. Hell, just the chance to shut the fuck up and be outside waving a stick in the middle of a river, whether or not you catch anything.  Lord knows there are worse ways to spend your days;
49. Friends who engage in conversations of substance when it's called for, and conversations of less-substance when that's called for as well;
50. Hawaiian pork;
51. For never wanting to quit - the Lutsen ski patrol and the Grand Marais ER can attest to this foolish instinct, but I'll be damned if I didn't rally for a quesadilla at the end of the day;
52. Two of my favourite breweries - the tap room at Castle Danger Brewery in Two Harbors, and the Lone Peak Brewery in Big Sky, Montana;
53. Riding a single speed bike - literally no cares whatsoever;
54. When people invite you to do stuff;
55. The fact that my mom got the CV Senior Choir to get real and start challenging itself more - seriously people, we can do this and sound good doing it!;
56. The perfect roll on your sleeves;
57. My new tattoo - "The only thing I knew how to do was to keep on keepin' on."  Truer words have never been said;
58. Bluebird days;
59. Giving gifts;
60. For the wisdom of people that have already been there;
61. That feeling you get when you are rid of all distractions;
62. Health, and the ability and will to lead a healthy, active lifestyle;
63. Anytime I can be outside;
64. For acceptance of mistakes, for forgiveness, for second chances;
65. Even numbers.

Thanksgiving 2015

Dear Internet,

Each year on Thanksgiving, I strive to make a list of those things I am thankful for.  I don't look at the previous years' list, nor is it intended to be exhaustive.  I find that by sitting down and being mindful, I am better able to appreciate this special day.  In many ways, this list is more for me than for others, so that I can remember just how blessed I am.  Therefore, in no particular order, here is this years' list.

1. Good health, save for a troublesome tooth.  More than that, I am thankful for an active body and lifestyle, which enriches life in so many ways.
2. My very pleasant spouse and adventure partner Kate - she's great.
3. All of my family - mom, dad, aunt, uncle, cousins, in-laws, siblings-in-law, etc.  I think it is easy to be ungrateful and take family for granted, and it's always a challenge to appreciate people in the midst of our busy lives.  But I want everyone to know that I love and appreciate you all very, very much!
4. My coterie of very good friends, who I really don't see as any different from the family listed above - a few that come to mind are Benjamin, Scott, Kris, Michael, Alex, John, Sarah, Sara, Emily, Shivan, Travis, Erik, Hilary, Mary, Katie, Corey, Josh, Steve, and Kevin.  If you're not on the list, I'm thankful for you too!
5. Tacos - specifically with carnitas.
6. Matt's Bar, the Town Hall Tap, and Northbound Smokehouse.
7. My very good friend Basil the greyhound - what a delightful roommate and astute companion.
8. For the feeling I get when I ride my bike anywhere - the feeling of unlimited freedom.
9. Star Wars - teenage Aaron would be so proud of what present Aaron has become.  So excited to see the next chapter of a story that has been such a constant source of comfort and narrative of ... HOLY SHIT HAVE YOU SEEN THE NEW TRAILER?!?!
10. An adventurous odyssey across the American West and central Idaho by mountain bike, car, and a whole lot of Grand Teton Brewing 208 Ale.  
11. For gainful employment, the opportunity to gain experience, and the prospect of a new chapter.
12. Whiskey - all of the whiskey.
13. Friends who are on new adventures of their own, whatever they may be.
14. Whenever my garage door opener works
15. Important people - a person who comes to mind is my high school band director, who is retiring this year after 30 years of teaching at Farmington High School.
16. Speaking of Farmington, for the students of the FHS mock trial program and all their successes.
17. The fact that I didn't need to get a stronger eyeglass prescription.
18. Celebrating the marriage of friends - Hilary and Brendan, Andrew and Danielle.
19. For somehow surviving the aforementioned marriage of Andrew and Danielle, and the Catholic youth minister that did his best to fell me.
20. A community where I feel safe, that accommodates plentiful bike traffic and provides opportunities to get outside.
21. Minnesota River Bottoms - don't pave it!
22. The faith community at Christus Victor Lutheran - I've particularly enjoyed being able to be on the church council and sing in the choir.
23. For the Wednesday evening gatherings after choir, discussing the world and our lives over beer and sweet potato fries.
24. Kevin Kooienga's instagram - long may we live vicariously through him!
25. Nottingham, and the IX.
26. The trombone - its sonorous tone, glorious projection, and the sheer joy of playing.
27. Lazy summer nights at Target Field with the Minnesota Twins.
28. Bruce, my jedi master who taught me that I can do anything until someone proves I can't.
29. The Great Divide Mountain Bike Route, and the promise of a pending adventure.
30. Pizza.
31. The menthol/teatree shampoo that Uncle Pat recommended to me.
32. Records on the turntable and a glass of Surly Abrasive.
33. Snow.
34. Skiing - doesn't really matter whether its Welch Village with my mom and Kate, or Alta with my dad.  Any day on the slopes is better than a day elsewhere.
35. Fly fishing trips and master classes with Tom, and adventures in muck with Erik - of course, always topped off by Wisconsin's finest beer and cheese curds.  
36. Coffee in a mug.
37. Well made and well worn leather goods.
38. Paying off credit card debt.
39. Weekends spent with friends.
40. Leaving work early to go outside on a perfect summer day.
41. Spur of the moment stuff.
42. Colourful wool socks.
43. A trip to San Francisco, complete with baseball, oysters, and trolley riding.
44. Taking a ski lesson at Alta, and learning something new.
45. Having the strength to stand up for myself.
46. Those times when you laugh so hard you can't breathe.
47. The friendly folks and conversation at Angry Catfish Bicycle and Coffee Bar.
48. Even numbers.

Again, by no means did I capture everything I am thankful for.  The more you think about it, you realize that you should have gratitude for everything.

I hope everyone has a contemplative and peaceful Thanksgiving!

Thanksgiving 2014

Dear Internet,

I was reminded today on Thanksgiving, at one of the family dinners so commonly experienced by all of us, of my blogging past - specifically during my time abroad in England.  While the blogging era has seemingly passed both for society and myself, I'm happy to continue the tradition of taking time to put into words what I'm thankful for each Thanksgiving.  And like many of you, I too have a tremendous amount of things to feel gratitude for.

With that intro, here's my list, in no particular order.

1. Good health - I feel very fortunate that I don't have physical or mental limitations to what I can do and want to pursue.
2. A new position at the Minneapolis Grain Exchange, and everyone who helped me get there.
3. Renewed respect for, and appreciation of, my work of counsel at my prior firm.
4. With number three in mind, the support of my former partner, Alan, as I transitioned to my new job.
5. For my spouse, Kate, who challenges me to not be complacent.
6. For my mom, Anne, who is always there.
7. For my dad, Paul, who is also always there (on that note, I'm thankful he emerged from his car accident in good health, and with a new tuba).
8. For my aunt Kerry and uncle Pat, who have shared with us their home and their pie.
9. For my cousin Mike, who reminds me to be myself.
10. For my cousins Lisa and Keith, and their kids Oliver, Henry, and August, who are a joy to become closer to.
11. For my sister and brother-in-laws, Kim and Erik, who are always so welcoming (and also good for a ski trip, fatbike ride, or emergency family dinner whiskey shot).
12. For my in-laws Vince and Sue, who let me be myself.
13. For all of my extended family, be they related by blood, marriage, or otherwise.
14. For my brother Benjamin, who is never more than a phone call or text away.  I'm very thankful for the long weekend we got to spend in Minneapolis this summer, which featured among other things, fixing a wall, watching a Twins game, nursing the worst hangover of my life, eating two pounds of pork steak, riding bikes, and listening to rock and roll outside - all of the very best things.
15. For my brother Scott, who is as present now as he was in elementary school.  One thing I'm thankful for this year are summer nights spent with him and Sara at their newish home, with nothing but good conversation to pass the time.
16. I'm thankful for all my other friends who mean so much to me, including but not limited to Kris, Michael, Travis, Emily, Emily, Mary, Emily, Sara, Sarah, Shivan, Hilary, Will, Kevin, Dave, Kevin, John, Courtnie, Steve, and Alex.
17. I'm thankful for my beloved Minnesota Twins, and summer nights spent under the stars at Target Field with a beer and a sausage.  I'm thankful for my friend Bruce, who is always good for baseball talk and a stiff drink.  Thankful for walkoff wins, home runs, pitching duels, and new faces.
18. Our house, which has mostly managed to keep itself in one piece throughout the year, plumbing blowouts and ice dams be damned.
19. To live in a community where I feel respected and valued - unlike many of those in our nation.
20. Chipotle - chicken burrito with white rice, black beans, the hot, the corn, sour cream, cheese, and lettuce.
21. For listening to vinyl records with good friends.
22. Whiskey.
23. To have attended the 2014 All-Star Game in Minneapolis.
24. Biking.  Whether tooling around town on my orange steed, training for the great divide on my Fargo, or floating over snow on my new fatbike, there's no other way I'd rather get myself from point A to point B - or just out and about.  Bikes are freedom.
25. For a great week spent exploring Rocky Mountain National Park, including my successful stare-down of a black bear.
26. Jazz.
27. My friend the dog, Basil.  He's always excited to do anything.
28. The smell of a pine forest.
29. Downhill skiing, and the opportunity to share that passion with family.  Highlights last year would be Kate embracing skiing, and three days spent ripping Vail and Beaver Creek with my dad.
30. The community and cast of characters at Christus Victor Lutheran Church in Apple Valley.  I'm even thankful for the Finance Committee.
31. For Pastor Kent, who always appears to have something wise to say.
32. The Farmington High School Mock Trial Program - extremely thankful for all of our students, and thankful for their dedication, hard work, and sense of fun.
33. Steak.
34. For getting rid of that shitty box spring and couch that have been littering our home and garage for two years.
35. Vegetables from our garden.
36. Star Wars Episode VII
37. Saturday morning coffee and donuts at the Angry Catfish.  I am thankful for Stephen, who I met as a salesperson, but now look forward to speaking with each week as a friend.
38. For fly fishing - the opportunity to learn a new challenge, the opportunity to be at peace in nature, and the opportunity to what feels like single-handedly support the neighborhood small business.  
39. Coffee.
40. Donuts, of all types.
41. Crisp, bluebird winter days.
42. Soccer games in Blaine.
43. Relaxing with a pipe.
44. The colour blue.
45. My friends, the Notters.  Not a second goes by (literally now - see item 46) where I don't think of you, 67 Homefield Road, or the experiences that forever bind us.  IX.
46. For first tattoos.
47. The chance to play the trombone.
48. For fine craft beer - preferably brewed here in Minnesota.
49. Clothing products made of wool - wool socks, wool vests, wool everything.
50. For intentionality, in all things.
51. Being able to bike to work.
52. Trading Kevin Love for Andrew Wiggins and Anthony Bennett.  
53. Snow.
54. Shorts and sandals.
55. Twitter.
56. Music.
57. Seinfeld.
58. Leather bike saddles.
59. That feeling you get after a good workout.
60. Taprooms!
61. Adventure.

I'm thankful for all of the above, and a lot more.  I'd venture to say many of you have much to be thankful for as well.  I believe God has blessed me richly, and whatever god, spirit, feeling, or principle you choose to subscribe to, I'd venture to guess you've all been blessed as well.  Thanks for everything!

Thanksgiving 2013

Dear Internet,

Each year, I strive to make a list on Thanksgiving of those things I am thankful for.  I will do the same this year, and I have consciously tried not to look at lists of years past, so as not to duplicate things simply by wrote copying.  So here, in 2013, is my list, in no particular order.

1. I am thankful for Kate, my wife.  She is funnier than I often care to admit, more social than me, more aware of things, and generally more well liked.  I'm happy she's decided to hang around.
2. I'm thankful for our home in S. Minneapolis.  Yes, I have still not identified the problem with the light in the basement, nor hooked up the cable.  But it's home, it fits us, and to boost our hipster cred in the coming year, our street is now a bike boulevard.  
3. I'm thankful for our awkward greyhound - he is a good friend, even when his skinny head shows up at dinner and drinks my cousin's wine.
4. I am thankful for my mom, dad, and other members of my small family.  They have been incredibly supportive through all the years, but I noticed it especially in the buildup to the wedding this year.
5. Speaking of weddings, I am thankful that so many folks could join us last month to be chill, have a drink, and help celebrate the whole getting married thing.  Good times were had.
6. I am thankful that I was not debilitatingly hungover on my wedding day, despite the best efforts of a certain groomsman and a whiskey tap...
7. I'm also thankful for my suddenly expanded large family on Kate's side, who have taught me many things regarding the preparation of red meat, horses, the throwing of dinner parties, and other essential life skills.
8. I'm thankful for steady employment, and the means to live a life more comfortable than I deserve.
9. I'm thankful for the hope that a more fulfilling vocation awaits.
10. Although I wouldn't say I'm necessarily thankful for 96 losses, I am still thankful each time I can sit and watch the Twins outside on a beautiful Minnesota summers' night with a beer and polish sausage, enjoy the company of good friends, and hopefully see something interesting on the field.
11. I'm also thankful to listen to Twins games on the radio, which never fails to instantly transport me back to more innocent days.
12. I'm thankful for freshly waxed skis, blue skies, new snow, and the chance to enjoy a day on the slopes.
13. I'm thankful Kate has decided to step outside of her comfort zone and join me in the aforementioned activity, and I am thankful for the opportunity to ski together in the future.
14. I'm thankful for my friends, the whole lot of them.  I'm thankful for google hangout book clubs, manboy holiday parties, afternoons at the pool, and happy hours for ballgames.  I am thankful that life changes, though they may change schedules and locations, do not change the depth of friendship.
15. I'm thankful every time I can ride my bicycle.  As a friend said, "if the longest road is between the head and the heart, the best way to get there is by bike."
16. I'm thankful for Saturday mornings with donuts from A Baker's Wife, coffee at the Angry Catfish, and a session of bike bullshitting with the staff.
17. I'm very thankful for fresh beer brewed locally.  One favourite that sticks out this year so far would probably be Chocolate Milk Stout from Dangerous Man.
18. I'm thankful for undertaking the physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual challenge of the Kalalau Trail in Kaua'i, having had the fortitude to make it there and back again, and for the memories and images that are now a permanent part of my experience.
19. I'm also thankful for the opportunity in general to have spent a holiday on Kaua'i and the town of Hanalei, which if I imagine paradise has a location, would be pretty close to it.  
20. I'm thankful for learning to surf.
21. I'm thankful for tacos.
22. I'm thankful for the trombone, and every opportunity to play it.  I'm thankful for teachers and professors who believed in me and pushed me practice and unlock my talents.
23. I'm thankful for the timeless lyrics and melodies of Bob Dylan, and for the opportunity to see him play once again.
24. I'm thankful for Hawaiian shirts.
25. I'm thankful for a sense of adventure.  
26. I'm thankful for our plans and focus on taking some time out of our hectic lives in 2016, and doing something we would not ordinarily do - namely, traverse the country by bike on the Great Divide Mountain Bike Route.
27. I'm thankful for Ricky Rubio - the rest of the Timberwolves too, I suppose.
28. I'm thankful for good health that allows me to enjoy an active life.
29. I'm thankful for cups of coffee.
30. I am thankful for the city I live in - for green spaces, for lakes and streams, for places to bike (see number 15), for delicious restaurants and interesting things to do.
31. I'm thankful for the color blue.
32. I'm thankful for the faith community at Christus Victor Lutheran, and the chance to search for something meaningful, among others, in life.
33. While we are on the topic of meaningful things, I'm thankful for every opportunity I have to get into a wild, natural place.
34. I'm thankful for brightly coloured socks.
35. I'm thankful for listening.
36. I'm thankful for pizza - especially pepperoni and sausage.
37. I'm thankful for the students on Farmington High School's mock trial team - I like to tell myself we are both learning something.
38. I'm thankful for music.
39. I'm thankful that J.J. Abrams is directing Star Wars Episode VII.
40. I'm thankful that this man is on youtube.
41. I'm thankful for the opportunity to serve on the CV Church Council, even when the meetings go too long.
42. I'm thankful for that technology that allows you to actually maintain meaningful relationships.
43. I'm thankful for summer weekends in Minnesota - one of many highlights this year would probably be Rock the Garden.
44. I'm thankful for even numbers.
45. I'm thankful for softball with the God Squad - no matter how many games we win.
46. I'm thankful for peanut butter.

I can't claim to have listed everything I'm thankful for this year, but I did my best as time allowed.  If you read this blog, I am undoubtedly thankful for you as well!

Thanksgiving 2012

Hello internet,

As Thanksgiving rolls around today, I find that I have many, many things to be thankful for.  I typically just create a list, but I think I'd like to write a bit more this year.  So, I'll keep the list, but make it a bit shorter and expand a bit.  I hope everyone takes some time today to think about the things they are thankful for.

 

1 - I am very thankful for my fiance Kate.  She is smarter than me, better looking than me, and generally more pleasant to be around.  I love her very much, and am eagerly anticipating Thanksgiving 2013, when instead of a "fiance," she will be a "wife."

2 - I am also very thankful for my family - my mom, dad, aunt, uncle, cousins and assorted other relatives.  They are continually supportive of me as I enter adulthood, and are ready to tell me the right thing to do, even if its not what I want to hear.

3 - I'm thankful for my five brothers - Benjamin, Michael, and Kris (the manboys), and Scott and Josh.  I will be very honored to have all five present at my wedding in October as groomspeople, and am looking forward to many good times both before and after.  They are not just friends, they are family.

4 - I am thankful for the new house Kate and I own in South Minneapolis.  It is beautiful, with a quaint backyard (note - perfect for summer parties...), more than enough space, a Dylan themed kitchen dining area, and an ugly ass Miami Vice wolf hanging over a bar.  Doesn't get much better than that.

5 - I'm thankful for Basil, our new greyhound.  He is incredibly nosy, very needy, and unkempt.  He has taken all my money to pay for his licenses, multiple giant dog beds, toys, food, and treats, not to mention the Bissel "Spotbot Pet" cleaning robot to clean up the piss he deposited on my beautiful mod rug (I could have had a robot that made me a gin and tonic - instead I have this...).  He wakes me up at 5:30 for no particular reason, steals my shoes, and barfs on the floor.  Love him anyways. 

6 - I'm thankful that I still have the opportunity to play the trombone.  Although it is not as much as I may like, I get the same joy out of it that I did at Luther College.

7 - I am thankful for having a job as an attorney.  Sometimes it is difficult to remember, but I am leaning a lot and developing the skills that I will need in whatever comes in the future.

8 - I'm thankful to live in a city that values alternative, healthy transportation, and makes it easy and fun to get around by bike.  Work seems so much better when I know I can ride to and from on the Midtown Greenway.  I'm thankful that due to this great cycling infrastructure, I have biked nearly 1,000 miles so far this year.

9 - I'm thankful for my good health.

10 - I'm thankful for hot summer days and nights spent watching my beloved Twins at beautiful Target Field with good friends, a Surly Bandwagon in one hand and a polish sausage in the other.  I would be even more thankful if the Twins could add some starting pitching...

11 - Speaking of, I'm thankful for good beer enjoyed amongst friend.  What a perfect simple pleasure.

12 - I'm thankful for my new family members - Kate's parents, sister, brother in law, and then too many random other relatives to count.  I felt very fortunate to have been invited on their summer trip to Yellowstone, and I very much enjoyed seeing the natural wonders and getting to know them all a little bit more.  I'm thankful that Kate's dad always makes steak for every meal, because I'm typically too cheap to buy it otherwise.

13 - I'm thankful for having been able to see Bob Dylan perform in person.  Through whatever else, the power of his words and music are unchanging.

14 - I'm thankful for the continued community at Christus Victor Lutheran Church, and the ability to serve as a council member/trombonist for hire.  The folks there have supported me since I was very young, and they even supported me as I struck out to end to the 2012 God Squad fall softball season.

15 - I'm thankful for the time Kate and I spend at Timberwolves games.  It has been fun becoming basketball fans together, and I'm thankful for how nice and pleasant the Timberwolves staff has been to us.  I'm also thankful that Kevin Love is returned from his hand injury...

16 - I'm thankful that the marriage and voter ID amendments were defeated in Minnesota.  I will be even more thankful when all my friends will enjoy the same civil rights as I do.

17 - I'm thankful for all my friends, be they from high school, Luther, Hamline Law, or elsewhere.

18 - I'm thankful for coffee - what a delicious beverage.

19 - I'm thankful for the cold weather.  I'll be more thankful once the snow falls, and I can (hopefully) get some more skiing in this year.

20 - I'm thankful that I got to fulfill a long time dream to spend a few days in Fort Myers at Twins spring training.  We had a great time doing nothing at the beach, watching baseball, and eating and drinking together.

21 - I'm thankful for the memory of my grandma, who passed away this past March.  I always remember her kindness and humbleness.  Her last words to me were asking if the Twins won.

22 - I'm thankful for tacos.

23 - I'm thankful for long drives with the windows down, and the radio turned up.

24 - I am thankful to live in Minnesota, which is such a great community with so many enriching things to do and see.

25 - On that note, I'm thankful to have spent a day this past June with two of my favourite people at Rock the Garden, enjoying being alive.

So, there you have it.  Certainly not an exhaustative list, but I think I hit the big points.

Hope everyone has a very nice day - happy Thanksgiving.